Are Men Perverts?

Some guy out there in the world, used chat rooms to talk to women and then offered a woman $750 for her to have sex with him while her children were there, too. It says nothing in the articles about him actually touching the kids or wanting to do anything of the sort. He apparently wanted them to watch.

The woman called the police and the man was arrested before – please note that word – anything happened. He admitted that he wanted to have sex with this woman, for money, in front of her children. No where does it state the ages of the children.

"By the grace of God these children were not exposed to a traumatic experience that could've lasted a lifetime," Lennington, the judge in the case, said.

"It could've been anybody's kids," the mother said.

Let’s look at the mother’s statement first. It could have been anybody? What? The man did not break into her house. He did not force her to do anything with threat of violence. He invited her to earn some money. SHE said okay. SHE acquiesced to bringing along HER kids. It could never have been MY kids because I wouldn’t have brought them into such a situation. This could only happen to children who had a mother willing to “sacrifice” them for money.

Now, for the judge’s statement. “Traumatic experience” I suppose means watching sex because the man was punished – by losing his job, having to register as a sex offender for 10 years, and doing 100 hours of community service. He is allowed to keep his own three children.

I would think it would be much more traumatic to watch your mother “sacrifice” you for money or else to prostitute herself. But neither of these traumas were addressed.

How many children of hookers watch their mommies bring home johns and work in front of them? Is this the johns’ fault or is it the mother’s fault – I’m betting it is society’s fault because everything is. Are any of these women registering as sex offenders? Do they, who actually have repeated sex in front of their kids, get their children taken away?

What about these people who believe in a “family” bed? What happens if in the darkness of night, Mommy and Daddy do stuff that awakens junior or juniorette and they are traumatized and see stuff? Do both parents have to register as sex offenders? Do they put the kids in foster care?

Let’s look at history for a minute. When did each person get their own bedroom? How many one-room cabins are even scattered throughout the USA, a relatively new country. Across the globe, how important is privacy to this “private” act? How many children, even today, actually see their parents having sex because they inadvertently open a closed door?

The guy didn’t even DO anything. He planned. He was arrested. His life is completely changed. Advocates of “the children” are up in arms because he wasn’t sent to prison. He is “evil” and his children should be taken from him because foster care is so much better. It might be, now that the guy is jobless and branded.

How many times have any of you out there in the world been propositioned with something you find distasteful? I can’t even count the number of “offers” I’ve had, but I never had anyone arrested for being gross. I simply said, “No.” What is so difficult about that? I wonder if Tom Cruise is gearing up to arrest people before they commit any crimes so that the world will be a safer place.