Thanks For Your Support

John Donne said, "No man is an island" and I must agree with him. No woman is either, but back in his day "man" included "woman" because we hadn't gotten insane with the politically correct language yet. But that whole issue is waiting for another time.

I have been blessed with family and friends who are supportive and sympathetic. This is not a given and it is a total gift. Friends and family have told me with sincerity in their voices how much they commend me for my decision to take a chance with change. These dear people have said that I can tolerate change, that I deserve to take the plunge into the unknown, and that I can not only survive, but thrive after all.

It is a bit of heaven to have someone agree with me. To have someone tell me that I am not nuts and am making a valid assessment with the proper resultant course of action is a welcome relief.

Taking a plunge off the deep end means that one can drown. But with all the people in my life rooting for a better outcome, I know that after the big dive I can find my way to the shore again. It is both comforting and reassuring to have my choice validated. When others agree with my assessment, I can find a sense of peace concerning the frightening choices.

Because it is my friends and my family that read this, I want to tell you all in a public place, that I am so grateful for your unwavering help. Your willingness to listen makes a huge difference but not nearly as much as your willingness to support me. You allow me to lean on you when I feel weak and unsure. You offer your insights into my uncertainty and show me why and how I can lessen my agitation. I am anxious with my need for a scary decision and then my wonderful circle of support steps up and lets me draw strength.

I can't thank you enough. I thank you for listening. I thank you for your empathy. I thank you for your support. I thank you for your faith in my own ability to choose well and to survive my choice.

I know that I am very lucky. This past week has been just more proof. You guys are the greatest.